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MONDAY, JUNE 11, 2007

Are You An Emotional Eater? (An Excerpt from Shrink Yourself)

To find out if you’re an emotional eater, answer the following seven questions:
The last time you ate too much:

1. Did you notice your hunger coming on fast, or did it grow gradually?
2. When you got hungry, did you feel an almost desperate need to eat something right away?
3. When you ate, did you pay attention to what went in your mouth, or did you just stuff it in?
4. When you got hungry, would any nutritious food have sufficed, or did you need a certain type of food or treat to satisfy yourself?
5. Did you feel guilty after you ate?
6. Did you eat when you were emotionally upset or experiencing feelings of “emptiness”?
7. Did you stuff in the food very quickly?

Let’s see how you did.
1. Emotional hunger comes on suddenly while physical hunger develops slowly. Physical hunger begins with a tummy rumble, then it becomes a stronger grumble, and finally it evolves into hunger pangs, but it’s a slow process, very different from emotional hunger, which has a sudden, dramatic onset.
2. Unlike physical hunger, emotional hunger demands food immediately, and it wants immediate satisfaction. Physical hunger, on the other hand, will wait for food.
3. A difference between physical and emotional hunger involves mindfulness. To satisfy physical hunger, you normally make a deliberate choice about what you consume, and you maintain awareness of what you eat. You notice how much you put in your mouth so that you can stop when you’re full. Emotional hunger, in contrast, rarely notices what’s being eaten. If you have emotional hunger, you’ll want more food even after you’re stuffed.
4. Emotional hunger often demands particular foods in order to be fulfilled. If you’re physically hungry, even carrots will look delicious. If you’re emotionally hungry, however, only cake or ice cream or your particular preferred indulgence will seem appealing.
5. Emotional hunger often results in guilt or promises to do better next time. Physical hunger has no guilt attached to it, because you know you ate in order to maintain health and energy.
6. Emotional hunger results from some emotional trigger. Physical hunger results from a physiological need.
7. When you are feeding physical hunger, you can eat your food and savor each bite, but when you eat to fulfill emotional hunger you stuff the food in. All of a sudden you look down and the whole pint of ice cream is gone.

POSTED BY !MICHELLE! | 9:44:57 PM

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Yvonne said...

I am very happy to have discovered this website. It is very informative because I no one has ever told me how to maintain your weight after you reached your goal. I am an emotional eater and I always worry that I will eventually regain the 40 pounds I lost. I eat healthy during the week but I allow myself to eat whatever I want on the weekend. This always turns into a major 2-day binge. I know this may be because I deprive myself during the week from eating the "bad" foods and junk foods. After reading your blogs on how to deal with emotions, I hope this will make me stop and think first so I can not continue to binge every weekend. Do you have any other suggestions that can help me?

barlan said...

This sounds a little bit weird, but as Im examining the way I feel about eating right now, is that I want to eat to compensate for not feeling about myself the way I would feel IF my weight was where it should be.

christy said...

I have just found this sight, I ordered the book last week. It should be delivered Oct. 2, I answered 7/7 yes, yes, yes, I know I have a problem, but I didn't realize that so many people had the same problem. I am 45 years old. I am married for 20 years adn I love my husband very mcuh, he is wonderful to me I have 2 wonderful children. I am a 1st grade teacher and every summer when school goes out I lose weight, but the day school starts back I start gaining. By the end of the year I have gained 20lbs. and it takes me all summer to lose it again. My family life is fine, I think my over-eating is due to my stress at school. It's like when I walk inthe door I want to start eating. I NEED HELP. I hope the book helps. I will join the program if it would help. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Anonymous said...

WOW! I just realised whata pattern emotional etaing is. I realise it began when I did sixth form I was stressed and anxious all the time about the work and I slowly develped a way to forget about the stress with food. My weight skyrocketed from the 150's zone to the 180's. Wow! Just being able to recoginze this is wonderful. People always say that your greedy when you get to fat but I know better know. It's not about physical greed, It's about emotional hunger.

des said...

i got 7 out of 7.what a relief ! i like so many have been on a diet lost it put it on .you name it i have done it .but after reading some stuff on this great vsite i realise it is not me v food . food is a friend not an enemy .i have been looking in the wrong place for the last 40 odd years . I am now putting my attention on doing things right and it has helped so much .my big problem was eating when everyone else had gone to bed .this has not happened all week .i feel great hope and am grateful .thank you all

Becky said...

Great tips. I use fatsecret.com to log my day.

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